We often try to help others out of kindness, but the results are not always what we expect. In this article, we will explore why we need to be cautious in extending kindness, illustrated through the story of a restaurant owner who helped a homeless person.
The Intention to Help the Vulnerable
There are many people in the world facing economic and mental hardships. Homelessness is often due to a variety of reasons beyond just financial difficulties. Understanding and helping them seems like the right thing to do as humans. However, this is where the problem begins.
People Who Distort Good Intentions
Those who receive help do not always show gratitude. Sometimes, they even act as if they are entitled to it. In such cases, the helper may feel disappointment and anger. This is a situation that many of us have likely experienced at some point in our lives.
Kindness Must Be Used Wisely
Kindness is a precious energy we possess. However, it should be directed towards worthy causes. Offering kindness to rude or ungrateful individuals can leave us feeling worse.
Conclusion
It is important for all of us to live by extending kindness. But this kindness should be directed towards those who truly deserve it. Wisdom is needed in the act of kindness. We should take a moment to reflect on the true value of kindness and consider how we will use it in the future. I hope this article encourages you to rethink how you choose to extend your kindness.